As a gentleman who enjoys the marvelous walk of life, I tend to think that most women are looking for more than a partner, financial contributor, or lover, the most important factor is to find a friend in their significant other. In understanding and effectively listening to the various personalities of women, I have grown and used this adequate source of knowledge to better my own personal relationship. We as men must learn to listen to what our counterpart is saying, and engage in the conversation with her. What we all must understand is that opinions are being shared, we must not come to a defensive position, for it may leave you with a skewed perception on your partner's point of view. Arguing with your partner is pointless which leaves you at the same point you were at before the argument ensued. In lieu of you providing a solution, you have created another problem within the situation. The old saying states 'Never go to bed angry', yet many couples go days without discussing what happened, and how it can be effectively solved. Listen to her heart as she speaks, her emotions will show through her voice. Hold her when she's cold, comfort her when she's upset and most importantly learn from her. There is a lesson that is taught each time you all disagree, find the hidden message (trust me it's there, you just have to LISTEN).
The Gentleman's Corner
